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I think we should have some fun ; )– You should probably already have your pants off when I get home… can’t stop thinking about that thing that we did on our date last night ; )– Mmm… You certainly know how to show a lady/guy a good time.As you might know, if you’ve been reading my work for a while, I have a tendency to gravitate to fairly polarized sex.I prefer to call it erotic talk, but that is a subject for another day.)I’ll get into specific phrases you can use momentarily, but first, some guidelines to help you get your black belt from the dirty talk dojo.A good rule of thumb with dirty talk is to tell your partner what you want to do to them/with them before you’re doing it, and then while you’re doing it, tell them what you’re liking about it.And while you’re fooling around, giving your partner real time feedback about what you’re enjoying is a great way to encourage them to give you more of that thing, and also gives your sexual play the added edge of becoming more of a multi-sensory experience.For a lot of people, it’s the details of dirty talk that make it so much of a turn on.For example, maybe your partner has a relatively high sex drive but their engine only gets revved up when they’re already thinking about sex. Again, this will all be based on what you authentically desire in the moment, but saying something along the lines of “I’m trying to get work done but I can’t stop thinking about last week when we were 69’ing and your delicious juices were flowing into my mouth” could be the thing that pushes them over the edge to jumping you.
It’s an area of sex that makes a lot of people feel silly because they’re unsure of how to go about it without feeling ridiculous. This is the ultimate guide to dirty talk, walking you through the things to generally avoid, include, and steer clear of altogether in order for you to dominate the world of dirty talk.(For the record, I don’t believe in the phrase “dirty talk” since there is nothing dirty about sex or talking about sex.
I love how your breath pauses when I put my mouth on your (insert partner’s preferred name for their genitals here).
There’s no where else I’d rather be than inside of you/on top of you right now.”Now… 😉If so, you need to watch this video I just made where I show you the sexual techniques women have been *begging* me to teach men…You’ll learn – Strategies to last for hours in bed…
And no, it doesn’t take away from the sexiness of your dirty talk if you check in with them. It’s the same well-spring of respect that makes you think to ask your partner if their penis/clitoris prefers softer or firmer stimulation. it enhances the feelings of safety, comfort, and connection.
Whether because of being raised in a sexually repressed household, culture, or religious upbringing, when some people begin their foray into verbalized dirty talk, they feel an extra bit of resistance.
Want some soft/easy starters for your titillating texts?